Control - Is a very important thing. If you have control, you have a lot of peace in life. Agree?
Be it the Control of Temper, Tongue or of Things, Control is a very powerful self discipline to inculcate.
When we have to manage things around us, what is it that we do? We pick a few things and not all the things to handle. But the smart ones ensure they are in control of the entire circle and not part of it. This is one of the wiser life lessons that I happen to learn very recently.
Now, when we think of tongue, it is a slippery place, but we need to control it, because hurtful words once spoken cannot be taken back.
Temper is never a good thing to nurture. It ideally shouldn't be shown, but if it needs to be shown then it should be dealt in a mature way , else it is futile. One will be wasting their time and energy.
So, remember the 3T's!!