A lot of us always debate as to whether a marriage changes one or not. Here is my POV,
1. Have learnt to be more patient. (Yes, a big deal because I had zero patience.)
2. Much more calm in my head.
3. Have put a few filters before I shoot my mouth off.
4. Have learnt not to react and hence I try most times to respond. (The magic of 5 helps too.)
5. In the process of learning to speak softly as well.
These are conscious effort that are put to alter.
Now, it depends on perception. For me, it was a lovely alter. So, no two ways about it!