How many of us have said this - I do not have a U turn in my life? Raise your hands in guilt or without an ounce of guilt. At some point in time in our lives, a lot of us have made this statement, but the question is how many of us live by it?
Well, we can say that is is situational based and when that situation has passed, then we go back to saying it again. But for a few, it is etched so strong in their minds, that they always struggle with an internal conflict. A fight with yourself and with your thought process. I agree, it is never easy to make a very strong decision and come what may, stick by it. We are humans after all and we tend to forgive and forget. But how do we decide on these decisions? How do we know which ones are the ones that can be reversed? Which ones cannot be reversed and indeed isn't worth a chance. Well, that is a tough one. But, one that needs to be addressed.
Here is what I feel,
1. Work on your instincts
2. Analyse the gravity of the situation
3. See the impact
4. Weigh the pros and cons always
5. Go with an open mind
6. Devoid yourself with pre-biased mindset
7. If the past has been really bumpy, see if it can be left behind
8. Don't address with negativity
9. Talk it out with near and dear ones
10. Make progress always
11. In the end, don't regret the decision that you have taken, because at some point in time, one would have thought it to be the best decision.
So, see if U-turn is possible or not and act wise!